Break patterns keeping you stuck.
Break patterns keeping you stuck.
Therapy for adults navigating relational trauma, relationship challenges, anxiety and patterns that leave you feeling disconnected from yourself and others.
Offering in-person therapy in New York City (Midtown Manhattan) and remote therapy sessions for NY and NJ residents.
True healing starts with the relationship you build with yourself.
It’s about rediscovering who you are while letting go of who you had to be to survive or feel worthy. This journey takes courage, self-compassion and the support of a trusted guide. I’d be honored to walk alongside you on this path to authenticity, self-love and freedom.
“Keep watering yourself.
You’re growing.”
— Eleanor Russell
Compassionate Therapy in New York and New Jersey:
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I know firsthand how life-changing a strong therapeutic relationship can be—because I’ve been on both sides of it.
Individual therapy offers a safe, supportive space to vent, reflect and grow. Whether you need ongoing support or want to focus on something specific, I take a dynamic, eclectic and compassionate approach tailored to you.
I work with individuals seeking help with:
Depression and anxiety
Body image and self-esteem struggles
Overwhelming emotions
Dating, sex and intimacy
People-pleasing and setting boundaries
Stifling gender roles and societal pressures
Substance dependence
Grief and loss
Healing from past trauma or abuse
Navigating relationship challenges
Difficult family dynamics
Stressful workplace issues
You don’t have to face it all alone—let’s work together to help you feel more like yourself.
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Relationship therapy can help you strengthen your bond before problems arise or guide you through tough times, like a crisis, major life change or those same old frustrating patterns that keep showing up.
No matter where you are in your journey, I’m here to help. As a compassionate and unbiased guide, I’ll help you uncover what’s keeping you stuck, get to the heart of the issues and practice healthier ways of communicating and connecting.
I proudly support LGBTQIA+ individuals, kink communities and alternative relationship structures.
I work with couples navigating:
Premarital counseling
Infidelity
Family planning and parenting
Division of labor struggles
Frequent conflict or personality clashes
Sex, intimacy, and desire
Disconnection and communication challenges
Divorce, separation, or redefining relationships
Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy
Your relationship deserves a path forward that works for you. Let’s build it together.
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Family therapy has the unique ability to get to the heart of the challenges we face—helping you address root causes and create lasting, positive change. If your family is struggling to connect, communicate, or navigate life’s hurdles, I’m here to help.
I work with families looking for support with:
Grief and loss, helping you heal together
Frequent arguments that leave everyone feeling stuck
Sibling rivalry and conflict resolution
Divorce and separation, creating new ways to move forward
Communication struggles, building stronger connections
Let’s work together to create a healthier, more supportive dynamic for everyone in your family. Change starts here.
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Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is an evidence-based therapy that helps people process distressing experiences and reduce the emotional impact of painful memories.
EMDR can be particularly helpful for:
navigating childhood relational trauma
anxiety and depression
PTSD and CPTSD
relationship difficulties
negative beliefs about self that persist despite understanding where they come from.
By helping the brain reprocess unresolved experiences, EMDR can support emotional healing, greater self-understanding, and healthier patterns in relationships.
I offer EMDR therapy to clients in New York and New Jersey through virtual sessions, with limited in-person availability in Midtown Manhattan on Tuesdays.
Meet Melissa Fulgieri, LCSW
Therapy with me is more than just talking – it’s about creating real change. My approach is supportively direct, meaning I’ll share honest insights about your situation without judgment or shame. You deserve a therapist who truly listens, understands and helps you uncover solutions that work for you.
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I tailor our sessions to your unique needs, drawing from a range of therapeutic models and I only recommend strategies or tools I’ve seen work firsthand. Whether it’s a podcast, a song, a book or a new practice, I’ll provide resources that align with where you already find inspiration and guidance.
Here’s the truth: I may be the expert in therapy, but you are the expert in your life. That’s why our work together is a collaboration — a dynamic, empowering conversation designed to leave you with actionable insights. Every session will give you something meaningful to walk away with, whether it’s a fresh perspective, a new skill or a reflective prompt to explore on your own.
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Discovering your authentic self and embracing who you truly are
Building unshakable self-worth and confidence
Finding a balance that works for you in both your personal and professional life
Creating space for genuine joy and fulfillment
Identifying, validating and expressing your emotions and needs
Setting boundaries that protect your peace—without guilt or fear
Releasing perfectionism and societal expectations that no longer serve you
Deepening your relationships by improving communication and connection
Challenging harmful beliefs about gender roles, success and self-sacrifice
Healing patterns of people-pleasing and self-abandonment
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Understand how your past shapes your present
Learn healthier ways to cope with big emotions
Identify and release what areas of your life no longer serve you
Get clear on what you need from yourself and others
Build a kinder, more supportive inner voice
Master authentic communication
Strengthen relationships that celebrate your true self
Develop self-trust to handle life’s challenges
I offer in-person therapy in New York and online therapy to residents of New Jersey.
Let’s tackle what’s holding you back and work toward a life that feels aligned, empowered and yours.
Beyond the therapy room
The relationships that shape us can also be the ones we heal from.
I'm the author of Healing Relational Trauma: Moved Beyond Painful Childhood Experiences to Deepen Self-Understanding and Build Authentic Relationships, published by New Harbinger Publications.
I wrote this book for anyone who has ever wondered why certain relationship patterns feel so difficult to change, even when we understand where they come from.
Drawing from attachment theory, trauma research, and my work as a psychotherapist, Healing Relational Traumaexplores how our earliest relationships shape the way we see ourselves, connect with others, and navigate the world. More importantly, it offers practical tools for developing self-compassion, rebuilding trust in ourselves, and creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
My hope is that this book helps you recognize that the ways you've learned to protect yourself don't have to define the ways you live and love.
Feel Safe. Feel Heard.
Feel Understood.
You deserve support that feels effective, personal and transformative. Let’s create that together.
Offering Therapy in New York and New Jersey
Ready to get unstuck?
Step into the life and relationships you deserve.
Schedule a free 15 minute phone consultation to see if we’re a good fit.